When I wear a dress.  I pay more attention to my femininity and grooming.  I shave me legs and moisturize.  I curl my hair and apply makeup.  I try more when I wear a dress and pretty heels. I am more modest.  I act more ladylike.

Interest- It does not matter how beautiful a woman is, if she opens her mouth with crude language, gossip, and ignorance.  After a man approaches because you have aroused his attention, he gets to know you and your personality, which can make or break his interest in you.

Desire- After a man is emotionally, physically and intellectually attracted to you, he feels desire for you.  This desire is what fuels a man to court you by taking you on dates, buying gifts and performing services.  Desire incites chivalry and a man’s desire to protect and provide for his wife/girlfriend.

Judgment- Judgment is when a man who is actively pursuing a woman decides to commit to a woman.  She has proven herself to be a woman worth having, a woman who meshes with his life.  He decides to propose to her.
Action- He proposes to his sweetheart.  He overcomes the negative messages about marriage and responsibility to give up freedom to protect and provide for a wife and children.

Women have the most power in the first stages of winning a man.  She has complete control of how she presents herself in dress, deportment and femininity.  She can cultivate her personality.  A woman should do her best to attract as many men as possible so she can choose and attract the best man.  A woman can also introduce competitors to arouse jealousy and competition in the man she wants most.

From my bedroom window, I have an exquisite view of the aurora borealis.

A woman who can provide for herself spends so much time earning her bread that she forgets the butter and jam.  Either we dismiss winning a man as frivolous or we become so absorbed in our work that we forget the delicacies of femininity and seduction.

Almost a century later, women won the battle for equality and lost the war and power with men.  Waiting until your wedding night to consummate your relationship has been replaced with casually hooking up and increasingly gratuitous pornography.  Sexting—sending explicit videos, pics or texts on your cell phone are in, heartfelt love letters are out.  Men who want to marry a quality, feminine women find these gems, few and far between.

While masquerading as equality and suffrage, feminism robbed us of our power.  Most of us no longer have the feminine secrets to win the man of their dreams.   Fascinating women have the power to win the man of their choice.  The secrets of feminine enchantment are a woman’s latent power.fem